Say What It Is You Want

Amused Muse has a new friend
who introduced her to a video
I would say Movie
but from what I saw
it wasn't really a "movie"
It was a video
called
"The Secret"
and apparently it is a hot topic
on Oprah and beyond

but what I got out of the discussion
after seeing the last 10 minutes of the video
and talking to her friend
is that you should say what you want
in a positive way
and it will come to you

so I did
I reposted my list
of what I want in a man
on a personals site
yeah I know
it is cheesy

and let me tell you
I have had nearly 100 hits
in less than a week,
which might not seem like much
but that isn't the kicker
the kicker is that of all those hits
not one has nibbled.

and I don't think my list is at all
bad
I mean, it is what I want in a man

so I am going to post it here too...

and here it is....

a good conversationalist
able to fit into social settings with ease
Clever and humorous
Have good anatomical geographic skills
Love the beach and to fish
an unselfish lover
a leader, when dancing, on and off the dance floor
show attention and consideration
wordsmith (or has a good dictionary or spellchecker)
Music lover
dancer (including c/w)
enjoy your profession
Work hard/ Play hard/ know how to take it easy too
old fashioned
have good table manners
and above all else
A true gentleman who knows how to let a woman know you like her with flowers, calls, small surprises,
and takes time to get to know someone before falling in bed with them.

So now he should just show up at my door ....
right?

yeah, I know, I know...

and I also know his name isn't Mr. Turnaround

but somehow I haven't completely let go of that one yet.